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Learn To Lead The OpenAI Way

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We are not born knowing how to manage and lead others effectively. It is a learned behaviour. Generative AI systems have been in the news lately, so I thought I’d have some fun using them to develop a list of invaluable management or leadership traits. If you aspire to take on a management or leadership role, here are my search results using Microsoft’s Bing OpenAI with editing by Grammarly and yours truly.

Worth Remembering – “Leadership is practiced not so much in words but in attitude and action.” – Geneen.

Learn to lead the OpenAI way.

  • Show your team how you want them to behave and perform by modelling the qualities and behaviours you expect from them. If you want your team to be positive, enthusiastic, and creative, you must demonstrate those traits yourself.
  • As a manager or leader, you must make intelligent and timely decisions that benefit your team and organization. You must empower your team to make appropriate decisions and provide the necessary tools and guidance.
  • Transparency and honesty are essential for building trust and establishing rapport with your team. Communicate openly and clearly with your team, and be honest about your actions, thoughts, and feelings. Encourage your team to do the same and listen to their feedback and concerns.
  • Remember that your main goal as a manager or leader is to guide and support your team, not to control or micromanage them. Put your team’s interests and needs above your own and show them you care about their well-being and success. Recognize and appreciate their contributions and provide them with opportunities for growth and development.
  • A good manager or leader can motivate and inspire their team to work towards a common goal that aligns with their values and ideals. Use consultation and collaboration to get your team committed by challenging them with new and exciting tasks.

Worth Remembering – “Great managers and leaders encourage leadership development by openly developing themselves.” – Marshall Goldsmith.

A great manager or leader is always willing to learn new things and improve their skills. Seek feedback from your team, peers, and mentors, and be open and receptive to constructive feedback. Learn from your mistakes, and trust me, there will be plenty of them. Celebrate your achievements. Seek out new opportunities for learning and development, and share your knowledge and insights with your team. I hope these tips help you learn to manage or lead the OpenAI way.

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Are You Uncomfortable Yet?

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Are you comfortable being where you’re at and what you’ve accomplished in your career, or do you want more? If you are comfortable and don’t aspire to take on more or do more, don’t. There is nothing wrong with that. But if you aren’t satisfied and want more out of your life or career, you need to change because nothing changes until you do. Change can be disruptive and uncomfortable. Change can be scary and somewhat unpredictable when doing something you’ve never done before. Nothing ever changes unless you are uncomfortable being comfortable.

“The price of doing the same old thing is far higher than the price of change.” – President Bill Clinton.

Do you want to make a change in your life or career? Then CHANGE.

C – Commit; Commit to a new beginning. Determine what needs to change in your life or career and devise a plan to achieve it. Those who fail to take the time to put a plan together end up failing.

H – Habit: Stop doing one thing and start doing another. Do it often enough, and it will become you. The old habit is no longer serving you. The old habit is getting in the way of you achieving your goal.

A – Action: Action, not words. Stop talking about it and start doing it. No one ever achieved anything by just talking about it. Real change comes from doing.

N – Never; Never give up. You’re going to have setbacks. Sometimes, it will feel like you’ve taken two steps forward and four steps back. At times, you’ll feel like quitting – but don’t. Be patient. Hang in there.

G – Growth: Growth happens outside of your comfort zone. The moment you take that first step is when you start to grow. But you have to take that first step.

E – Enthusiastic: If you aren’t excited about the changes you want to make, the direction you’re headed, and the goals you’ve set for yourself, then you aren’t motivated enough to make those changes. How bad do you want it?

‘Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. ” – Shaw.

People change for a whole bunch of reasons. What will that change do for you? Will it make you feel better, look better or be a better version of yourself? Will it enhance your career and make you promotable? The changes that stick are the ones that people are committed to making. You have to be all in. If you aren’t 100% committed to making the change, you’ll likely fall back into doing what you’ve always done. Are you uncomfortable yet?

Your call to action. We can help you make those changes. Contact Brian to find out how. – brian@briansmithpld.com.

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Authentic Leadership Defined

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Authentic – Adjective: of undisputed origin, genuine. Synonyms: – credible, legitimate, original. Being authentic implies that you’re trustworthy and reliable. Some leaders and managers start taking on bogus characteristics because they feel pressured to be what they’re not. They believe it will help them increase their chances of successfully leading or managing others. Are you being your authentic self, or are you faking it?

“You were born to be real, not to be perfect. You are here to be you, not ot live someone else’s life.” – Ralph Marston.

You can’t rub the stripes off the tiger or the spots off the leopard, no matter how hard you try. You are who you are. However, your authentic leadership style may not be effective in some situations. A strength can become a weakness. One way of managing and leading others does not fit all. The key to working with others is to communicate and interact with them the way they like. You don’t have to change who you are – just modify your approach.

Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we are supposed to be and embracing who we truly are.” – Brene Brown.

Dr. William Marston believed we are one of four distinct personalities, Dominant, Interpersonal, Steadiness or Conscientious, that heavily influence our behaviour. He ascertained that we become who we are and act the way we act at a very young age. We get accustomed to behaving a certain way, communicating and interacting with others a certain way and managing ourselves and others a certain way that eventually becomes our authentic selves.

“Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomfort.” – Arnold Bennett.

If you want to be more effective in leading or managing others – don’t change who you are – change the way you do it.

D – Dominant: To be more effective in leading or managing dominant personalities, get to the point quickly, use a rapid pace and be business-like. Answer the “what” questions.

I – Interpersonal: To be more effective in leading or managing interpersonal personalities, be casual and approachable, and establish those all-important relationships. Answer the “who” questions.

S – Steadiness: To be more effective in leading or managing steadiness personalities, use a slower pace and establish rapport by being friendly. Answer the “how” questions.

C – Conscientious: To be more effective in leading or managing conscientious personalities, be reserved and wait for them, limiting your feelings and enthusiasm, Answer the “why” questions.

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Shit Happens – Figure It Out!

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Shit happens – figure it out. I love that quote from Tony Gareri. It spoke to me because most things never go exactly as planned. Too many obstacles can get in your way and throw you off course. You can’t control what’s out of your control, but you can decide how to react. Shit happens – it’s called life. You can either step over the shit or step in it. You pick. You can either let it ruin your day and torpedo your plans – or you can learn from it and use it to learn the lesson it’s trying to teach you and begin again. This time, a little wiser and a little more informed.

“A positive attitude gives you power over your circumstances instead of your circumstances having power over you. ” – Joyce Meyer.

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company, a church, or a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. We can only play on the one string we have, which is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you. We are in charge of our attitudes. Wise words with remembering by Charles Swindell.

“The bend in the road is not the end of the road unless you fail to make the turn.” – A. Kane.

Do you walk around thinking your cup is half-full or half-empty? I think my cup is half-full. I choose to see the positives in everything that happens to me as a learning opportunity. Even the negative things that happen to you, and trust me, there will be plenty of them, are positives if you look at them from another point of view. It helps if you believe everything happens to you for a reason. Whatever happens today is preparing you for what will happen tomorrow.

“Some people want it to happen., some wish it would happen, and others make it happen. ” M.J.

I am, without a doubt, the most optimistic person you will ever meet. Besides being an eternal optimist, I’m also a realist. I do have my Dr. Phil moments of clarity. I know that I can’t control everything that happens around me. But I know I can control how I react in any situation. In that space between stimulus and response that Dr. Covey talks about and what Dr. Viktor Frankl knows to be true from his experiences, I know I must react in a way that will get me what I want. I know that shit happens, and I will figure it out. You can figure your shit out, too.

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