How To Future-Proof Your Career

Soft skills are people skills. They are your ability to communicate and interact more effectively with others. They are your ability to negotiate and resolve conflict, devise creative ways to solve problems and build collaborative teams. Soft skills are the new currency in today’s multi-generational and diverse workplace. Without them, you will have difficulty advancing your career, managing and leading others or getting that promotion.

Worth Remembering – Don’t underestimate likeability. Likeability is a soft skill that leads to hard results. – Mo Bunnell.

If you want to future-proof your career – start here.

Learn to be more patient. There aren’t dumb students, only dumb teachers. If the student didn’t learn, the teacher didn’t teach. Adults can learn new things, but not everyone learns the same way or at the same pace, especially if they are learning something for the first time. Be patient. Don’t hurry progress.

Be open-minded. There are several ways to achieve the same result. It doesn’t have to be just your way. Resist the urge to micro-manage. Solicit input from those on your team. A good idea becomes a great idea when others participate in the process.

Become more empathetic. Try to see things from their point of view. There may be things going on that you aren’t aware of. Ask open-ended questions and discover what’s happening behind the scenes before deciding on an action plan.

Communicate in a way that others will understand. If you don’t send and have them receive the message as intended, then whatever you say means nothing. Gen Z is the most wired generation and prefers to communicate virtually. Embrace technology and connect with them the way they choose.

Listen more than you talk. You won’t learn a thing if you keep talking; that’s why you have two ears and only one mouth. Give people your undivided attention. Ask great open-ended questions to promote dialogue, and sit back and really listen to the answers. You will be amazed at how much you will learn.

Worth Remembering: The quality of your working relationships determines your success and happiness. Stop leaving it to chance and start building the best possible relationships. – Michael Bungay Stanler.

You have the potential to work with four different generations at the same time. Each generation – Boomers, Gen X, Millennials and Gen Z, the newest generation to enter the workforce en masse – wants to be included, not excluded. If you want to future-proof your career, make them feel important. Take the initiative and develop your soft skills. Learn to be patient, open-minded, a great communicator and an even better listener.

Copyright 2024. Brian Smith—Power Link Dynamics. Brian specializes in soft skills training and leadership development. To learn more about Brian and what he can do for you or your organization, visit his website: https;//briansmithpld.com. If you have questions and want answers about your challenges when managing and leading others, contact Brian at brian@briansmithpld.com. He is here to help.

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Celebrating Emotional Intelligence Month

EQ – Emotional Quotient – emotional intelligence or soft skills is the ability to understand, use, and positively manage your emotions to reduce stress, communicate more effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and defuse conflicts. Daniel Goleman said it best in his groundbreaking book- Working With Emotional Intelligence. ‘A new yardstick is judging us; not just how smart we are, or by our training and expertise, but also how well we handle ourselves and each other.’ Sixty-seven percent of the competencies needed to manage and lead others are emotional-based. If you can’t make an emotional connection and establish a relationship with those on your team, you will be an ineffective manager or leader. To retain and attack talent, you must up your leadership EQ.

One of the most important things about being a good manager or leader is to rule with a heart. You have to know the business, but you also have to know what is at the heart of the business – and that’s people. – Oprah.

We live in a hi-tech world, but your soft skills – empathy, patience, flexibility, open-mindedness, and the ability to communicate and interact with others- will play a more significant role in your success. For the first time in our lives, we have the potential to work with four different generations at the same time. Each generation – Boomers, Gen X, Millennials and the newest generation – Gen Z; communicates, interacts with others, manages and prefers to be managed differently. Each generation has different wants and needs. The successful manager or leader will be the one who can adapt their management or leadership style to build those all-important relationships and work with others the way they like.

Soft skills won’t guarantee a promotion, but not having them puts you at risk of not getting the offer. – Brian Smith.

Research conducted by McClelland, Goleman, Kouzes and others tells a compelling story about the link between an organization’s success and its leaders. Emotional intelligence / soft skills are the magic ingredient that separates the so-so from the exceptional companies. Senior managers and leaders with a high EQ component were 20 percent more profitable and had less staff turnover. People like to work with people who make them feel respected. People want to work with organizations that make them feel accepted and valued as an essential part of the team. How often do you leave your office and have a friendly conversation? How frequently do you sit in the lunch room talking with people and getting to know them better for more than just the work they do. If you want to build a collaborative team and retain and attack talent, up your leadership EQ.

Copyright 2024. Brian Smith – Power Link Dynamics. This article was written by Brian without the assistance of AI and cannot be reproduced without permission.

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Tips For Managing Your Boss And Living To Tell About It

One thing you need to understand is that you are not going to change your boss. They’ve successfully managed and led others a certain way, so they don’t think they need to change. The key to managing your boss is to work with them in a way they like. How do they prefer communicating, interacting with others, receiving information, and managing their direct reports? If you can learn to work with them how they like, you’ll establish a great working relationship and will have discovered how to manage your boss and live to tell about it.

Whatever the circumstances of your life, understanding type can make your perceptions more transparent, your judgment sounder, and your life closer to your heart’s desire. – Isabel Briggs Myers.

When I was general manager of a major retailer, I had my team score a behavioural assessment tool based on Dr. William Marston’s DISC theory. Dr. Marston believed we are one of four types, D, I, S, or C, that greatly influence how we prefer to communicate and interact with others and how we manage and like to be managed. This gave me valuable insights into how to work with someone who preferred a different way of communicating and interacting.

D Type – Dominant. They walk fast, talk fast and make quick decisions. They are not big on detail, so don’t waste their time with pie charts, graphs and volumes of information. Make communication brief and to the point. They are razor-focused on the task and see no need for idle chit-chat. Be prepared for blunt, demanding approaches.

I Type – Interpersonal. Don’t be in a hurry. They prefer a relaxed and social environment. Relationships are essential to them. Let them verbalize their thoughts and feelings. They are great salespersons, so be prepared for someone who will attempt to persuade others. They would rather be liked than respected, so provide them with what they will need to make those tough decisions.

S Type – Steadiness. They have a built-in resistance to change. They don’t like to make waves. Be logical and systematic in your approach. They are great team players and like to maintain the status quo. They don’t like to make mistakes, so provide them with written and verbal instructions on implementing those changes.

C Type – Conscientious. They value high standards and strive for perfection. They are your best planners. Be prepared – make sure you know what you know. They have little patience for vague generalizations. They are all about detail, so they will double-check your work. If you don’t know the answer, don’t make stuff up. Tell them you don’t know, but you will find out and get back to them with the correct answer.

Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to understand ourselves better. – Carl Jung.

Remember, you are not going to change your boss. The best you can hope for is to work with them in a way they like. If you can adapt your behaviour to be more in tune with theirs, you’ve discovered how to manage your boss and live to tell about it.

Copyright 2024. This article was written by Brian Smith – Power Link Dynamics without AI assistance. It is not to be reproduced without permission. If you want to learn more about DISC and how it will help you to communicate and interact more effectively, build collaborative teams, resolve conflict and motivate others to perform at their best, contact Brian directly at brian@briansmithpld.com.

You Can Learn To Manage Others Successfully

We aren’t born knowing how to manage others; it’s a learned behaviour. You can learn how to communicate and interact more effectively, build collaborative teams, resolve conflict, find creative solutions to problems and motivate others to perform at their best. Don’t just let your management career happen. You must be more strategic in defining your management style to become the manager you want to be. You can learn to manage others successfully.

Leadership is not something that a person is born with. It is a life-long learning journey.

Successful managers can view their team’s mistakes as opportunities to coach and teach them what they need to know to complete the task so those mistakes don’t happen again.

Successful managers understand that desired outcomes result from parking their egos at the door and doing everything they must to reach the goal. Sometimes, it’s letting the team do it their way, even if it’s not how they would have done it.

Successful managers understand that they need to create an environment conducive to learning. They know that adults can learn new things, given the proper circumstances and environment.

Successful managers know they can’t do it alone and must build collaborative teams. They surround themselves with others who can do some things better, stay out of their way, and let them do it. They resist the urge to micromanage.

Successful managers understand that they don’t have to know everything and it’s ok to ask for help or advice. The more they include their team in the decision-making process, the more likely they want to be involved in the results.

Successful managers understand that not everyone is motivated the same way, but they can be motivated. Motivation is inside out, never outside in. If you help them reach their goals, they will be motivated to help you reach yours.

Leadership is practiced not so much in words but in attitude and action.

You get to choose what kind of manager you want to be. If you want to manage others successfully, then you have choices to make. Choose wisely. I’ve listed a variety of things that you can do to manage others. Successful managers understand that it is a team sport. They realize they need their team more than their team needs them. Take the time to know everyone on your team for more than their work. Establish rapport, build those all-important relationships, show respect and earn their trust. You can learn to manage others successfully.

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