I was your typical A-type personality. You can guess what some people thought the A meant. I was a control freak. It had to be my way, or no way. I let everyone know who was in charge. When I said jump, you were only allowed to ask, ‘How high?’ I was the ‘Imtiminator.’ Does this sound familiar? Do you know of anyone who still manages or leads others this way? If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail. Times have certainly changed. What you need to decide now is whether the management style that got you here will be the same style that will get you and your organization to where you need to go. I changed, and you can change too.

Worth Remembering – When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. – Viktor Frank.

C – Commit to a new beginning. If you aren’t committed to making a change, then don’t waste your time. You have to be all in or not at all.

H – Habit. Stop doing one thing and start doing another. The more you do it, the more it will become you. We are adults, and we can learn new habits. When you change the habit, you change the result.

A – Attitude. Your attitude is 100 percent in your control. You and you alone control the narrative. No one can make you do anything that you don’t want to do. Develop a Can-Do attitude.

N – Never give up. Failing is part of the learning process. You will fail in the beginning. Don’t get discouraged. Change takes time. Be patient. Hang in there.

G – Goal-oriented. Keep your eye on the prize. Don’t get distracted. Remind yourself why you need to change and what that change will do for you.

E – Energized. Motivation is inside out – never outside in. You need to hit the ground running. Be your biggest cheerleader. Celebrate your successes along the way.

Worth Remembering – Intelligence is the ability to adapt to change. – Stephen Hawking.

There has been a dramatic shift in people’s attitudes. Their wants and needs are changing. Each generation communicates and interacts differently, wants to be managed differently, and has different values and career aspirations. The newest generation to enter the workforce, Gen Z, is vocal about avoiding burnout. Wellness benefits, reasonable workloads, and supportive cultures are important to them. Daniel Goleman, in his ground-breaking book – ‘Working With Emotional Intelligence,’ said it best. ‘We are being judged by a different yardstick; not just how smart we are, or by our training and expertise, but also by how well we handle ourselves and each other.’ I changed, and you can change too.

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