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Celebrating Emotional Intelligence Month

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EQ – Emotional Quotient – emotional intelligence or soft skills is the ability to understand, use, and positively manage your emotions to reduce stress, communicate more effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and defuse conflicts. Daniel Goleman said it best in his groundbreaking book- Working With Emotional Intelligence. ‘A new yardstick is judging us; not just how smart we are, or by our training and expertise, but also how well we handle ourselves and each other.’ Sixty-seven percent of the competencies needed to manage and lead others are emotional-based. If you can’t make an emotional connection and establish a relationship with those on your team, you will be an ineffective manager or leader. To retain and attack talent, you must up your leadership EQ.

One of the most important things about being a good manager or leader is to rule with a heart. You have to know the business, but you also have to know what is at the heart of the business – and that’s people. – Oprah.

We live in a hi-tech world, but your soft skills – empathy, patience, flexibility, open-mindedness, and the ability to communicate and interact with others- will play a more significant role in your success. For the first time in our lives, we have the potential to work with four different generations at the same time. Each generation – Boomers, Gen X, Millennials and the newest generation – Gen Z; communicates, interacts with others, manages and prefers to be managed differently. Each generation has different wants and needs. The successful manager or leader will be the one who can adapt their management or leadership style to build those all-important relationships and work with others the way they like.

Soft skills won’t guarantee a promotion, but not having them puts you at risk of not getting the offer. – Brian Smith.

Research conducted by McClelland, Goleman, Kouzes and others tells a compelling story about the link between an organization’s success and its leaders. Emotional intelligence / soft skills are the magic ingredient that separates the so-so from the exceptional companies. Senior managers and leaders with a high EQ component were 20 percent more profitable and had less staff turnover. People like to work with people who make them feel respected. People want to work with organizations that make them feel accepted and valued as an essential part of the team. How often do you leave your office and have a friendly conversation? How frequently do you sit in the lunch room talking with people and getting to know them better for more than just the work they do. If you want to build a collaborative team and retain and attack talent, up your leadership EQ.

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Four Leadership Skills That Will Drive Team Performance

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Whether you are in a management position or want to be promoted into a leadership role in your organization, the challenges remain the same. New leadership skills are required for an ever-changing, multi-generational, diverse workplace. Today’s new crop of potential managers and leaders must have exceptional people skills and master the ability to connect with others to build collaborative teams, communicate in a way that everyone will understand, educate them on what they need to know, and help others grow by delegating often.

Worth Remembering – If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up people to collect wood and don’t design tasks that work for them; instead, teach them to long for the immensity of the sea. – Antoine de Saint-Exupery.

Connecting. Exceptional managers and leaders can make an emotional connection. They understand that if you can’t make an emotional connection, you stand little chance of capturing their heads, hearts, and hands. Your success and the success of your organization hinge on your ability to bring people together and build a collaborative team.

Communicating. Exceptional managers and leaders know that communication is everything. They realize that they are not the most important person in the conversation. If you can’t send the message in a way that everyone will understand, then whatever you say will mean absolutely nothing. You need to get everyone on the same page.

Educating. Exceptional managers and leaders can teach others what they need to know to complete the task and reach individual and team goals. They understand that not everyone learns the same way. The key to teaching someone is to find out how they like to learn and teach them in their preferred style.

Delegating. Exceptional managers and leaders understand that they can’t do it alone. They understand that you must give up control to get control. They know that if they don’t delegate some of their responsibility to those around them, they rob them of their opportunity to grow. Successful managers and leaders resist the urge to micromanage.

Worth Remembering – To each, there comes a moment when they are offered a chance that’s fitted to their talents. What a tragedy if, at that moment, finds them prepared or unqualified. – Sir Winston Churchill.

Are you looking to become an exceptional manager or leader? Develop these four skills. Learn to connect with others, communicate in a way your team likes, educate them on what they need to know and grow your people by delegating often.

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Conflict is Inevitable – How You Resolve It is Optional

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Conflict is inevitable when working with and interacting with others. It can diminish creativity, reduce productivity, impact decision-making and lead to a dysfunctional working environment. Building solid relationships with the people you work with and interact with is essential to resolving conflict and finding creative solutions. You don’t have to socialize with everyone you work with, but you must learn how to get along with them.

Peace is not the absence of conflict but the ability to cope. – Gandhi.

A recent study conducted by the HayGroup, a leading authority on emotional intelligence, concluded that EQ – soft skills – are twice as important as IQ – your technical ability – for most jobs. Soft skills are the new currency in today’s workplace. If you can’t communicate effectively, actively listen to what others say and get along with them, you stand little chance of successfully resolving conflict, finding creative ways to solve problems or negotiating wins.

If we can manage conflict constructively, we harness its energy for creativity and development. – Kaye

Generally speaking, there are three types of conflict; Disagreement, Misunderstanding and Actual Conflict. Here is what you’ll be able to do to resolve them.

Disagreement: When you have different opinions about a subject and neither has the authority to change them, resolve them quickly. When the discussion gets old, respect each other’s views and agree to disagree.

Misunderstanding; When communication breaks down, and only part of the message gets through, resolve it with courtesy, respectful assertiveness and, most importantly, good active listening skills. You may have missed something that the other person said. Have them restate their position, and you restate yours.

Actual Conflict; You may not like them, and they may not like you. Try to separate the person from the problem and focus on their needs. Come up with all the options available to you to resolve the situation. Be sure the solutions are based on objective standards. They can’t be because you said so.

Conflict is good in a negotiation process – it’s a clash of two ideas, which then, all being well, produces a third idea. – Roberts.

When conflict happens, step back momentarily and decide what you are prepared to do to fix it. Communication is the breakfast of champions. If you can learn to communicate your point of view so that the other person will understand and actively listen to what they have to say. In that case, you will be better positioned to resolve the conflict and find a creative solution you can agree on. Conflict is inevitable; how you resolve it is optional.

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But We’ve Always Done It This Way Isn’t An Option

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But we’ve always done it this way. How many times have you heard someone say that famous line? You’ve properly heard it so many times that you’ve lost count. Just because you’ve always done it that way – doesn’t necessarily mean you should keep doing it that way. In today’s fast-paced business environment, you’ll be left behind if you don’t keep pace with all those changes swirling around you. Change is constant – how you and your team adapt is optional. You need to get on board so you don’t get left behind when the train leaves the station.

Worth Remembering – The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old but on building the new. – Socrates.

If you could implement changes, what would you want to stop doing, keep doing or start doing?

Stop Doing – When was the last time you reviewed your processes. Why do you do what you do, and how do you do it. Are they value-added or no longer serving you? Ask everyone on your team and solicit their input.

Keep Doing – When was the last time you reviewed your processes to ensure that what you are doing is still getting the results worth getting. Are they value-added or no longer serving you? Ask everyone on your team and solicit their input.

Start Doing – When was the last time you reviewed your processes to find a better, more efficient, cost-effective way of doing what you’re doing. Are there new technologies that other organizations use that add value and will serve you better? In my college professor days, I called those best practices.

Worth Remembering – An organization’s ability to learn and rapidly translate that learning into action is the ultimate competitive advantage. – Jack Welch.

The business environment is constantly changing. Technology is changing. Team members change. Management changes. Leadership changes. Ownership changes and organizations need to change, too. The problem isn’t change because change will happen with or without you. The problem is our inability to cope with those changes. You and your team must adapt and change with the times. You must get on board, or you will be left at the station when the train pulls away. But we’ve always done it this way isn’t an option.

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